I’m speechless right now. In fact, I have no nice words for Slim Thug, the southern rapper who was featured in Beyonce’s hit single, “Check Up On It.” I’m very upset that I once supported his career. Well that has changed. Why you ask? Well, in Slim Thug’s latest interview with Vibe Magazine, the rapper spoke negatively about Black women. What got to me the most was, “Black women have to bow down and let it be known that they gotta start working hard; they gotta start cooking and being down for they man more.” WHAT? Is this creature of a man serious?

Here are his words:

The way Black people think in general is messed up. Both men and women need to change their way of thinking. It’s hard to trust a Black woman [sometimes] because a lot of Black women’s mind frame is that the man gotta do everything for her⎯ he gotta pay for this, he gotta pay for that, and if it ain’t about money then a lot of them ain’t fucking with him. If that’s what you’re here for then I don’t want to be with you.

Most single Black women feel like they don’t want to settle for less. Their standards are too high right now. They have to understand that successful Black men are kind of extinct. We’re important. It’s hard to find us so Black women have to bow down and let it be known that they gotta start working hard; they gotta start cooking and being down for they man more. They can’t just be running around with their head up in the air and passing all of us.

I have a brother that dates a White woman and he always be fucking with me about it saying, “Y’all gotta go through all that shit [but] my White woman is fine. She don’t give me no problems, she do whatever I say and y’all gotta do all that arguing and fighting and worry about all this other shit.”

My girl is Black and White. I guess the half White in her is where she still cooks and do all the shit that I say, so we make it. She just takes care of me and I like that. She don’t be begging and I don’t gotta buy her all this crazy ass shit. And she’s a smart girl too. She graduated from Columbia [University] and I like that about her so it’s cool. I’ve dated girls that will buy a $3,000 bag and don’t know how to pay it off on their credit cards. They walk around in these Louis Vuittons and red bottoms but they’re riding around in raggedy cars, so it’s just getting your priorities right.

White women treat they man like a king and Black women feel like they ain’t gotta do that shit. Black women need to stand by their man more. Don’t always put the pressure of if I’m fucking with you, you gotta buy me this and that. Black men are the ones that motherfuckers need [but] I think a lot of them need to step it up too. A Black man who gets a little bread will go make it rain in the club and be broke the next day or instead of him going to invest in a business he gonna go buy new jewelry or a new car and still live in the hood. Black peoples’ mentality is real fucked up in general [and] it’s affecting everything.

Black women need to be more genuine and be more 50/50 [but] It should be a fair exchange in a relationship period or eventually somebody is gonna feel like they’re getting fucked over whether it’s the woman or the man. I think that will help Black relationships out a lot.

Wasn’t he in a relationship with singer LeToya Luckett, a black woman. I wonder why they aren’t together anymore. I guess she wasn’t submissive enough. What? She didn’t want to stay home and cook and clean after you “Slim Thug”? Apparently in his mind, maybe she shouldn’t have gone after her own career and worked her way to become a much bigger artist then he is. So sad when a man can’t handle a strong woman.

I wonder how the Black women in his family, his mother, aunts, sisters, grandmother feel about this man’s words. I’m embarrassed for them.